Wedding photographer explains three telltale signs a marriage is ‘doomed’

A wedding photographer says she has learned of "three things" that signify if a relationship will not last.

In a TikTok video, Shayla @shaylamherrington says she was taught the hidden signs of discontent by a more experienced photographer who had spent more than 10 years working at weddings.

Explaining how she was "really interested to hear their theory on this" Shayla describes the apparent warning signs.

She says the first warning sign is when a spouse takes "more than three family photos" without their partner in the shot.

"This one kinda makes sense to me, just because you might get a few with your mom and dad, but to kick them out of more than three photos, seems a little suspicious," she says.

"The second indicator is the bridesmaids or the groomsmen will avoid talking about the spouse when they are getting ready or doing toast or anything."

Shayla says it's a sign the friends do not approve of the relationship and perhaps know something is wrong.

Finally, she says: "The last indicator is one of the spouses will spend more time with friends or family at the reception rather than their spouse."

Addressing her viewers, she adds: "So what do you guys think, do you think this theory holds some truth?"

Since the video was uploaded last week (November 12) it has been watched more than 200,000 times and thousands of people have commented.

One user wrote: "Yep. My Ex-husband didn't spend time with me at the wedding, and his groomsmen didn't say hi to me at all."

A second viewer said: "I honestly think a big indicator is a huge expensive wedding. Like they're trying to put on a show for everyone, don't care about their marriage."

Many people suggested there can be genuine reasons brides or grooms might do the "three things" that have nothing to do with the strength of their relationship.

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