An old friend cancelled our plans but then I saw him enjoying himself with others – The Sun

DEAR DEIDRE: AN old friend let me down. I ran into him in town and he asked me over for a drink. Later, he called to say he wanted a night alone. “Don’t bother,” effectively.

I walked by his house and could see he wasn’t alone.

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I saw him, his girlfriend and two others in the front room. They looked chilled and I heard music playing.

I’m a woman of 26. He is my age. It made me feel very left out. Am I right to feel hurt? I would have been up for an evening like that but it’s clear they didn’t want me.

DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t leap to conclusions on the basis of that one evening. You really don’t know what the plan was or quite what happened.

Get in touch with this mate soon to suggest meeting up – and next time, give him more notice.

If you are feeling lonely, then check out Meetup ( to help find new friends.

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